Archive for May, 2009

Summer Starts in the Hamptons!

Thursday, May 28th, 2009

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Well, last weekend, the official beginning of the season in the Hamptons, was certainly star studded. The Hamptons refers specifically to a cluster of towns on the east end of Long Island, New York.  The Hamptons are a popular seaside resort that is known for their amazing beaches as well as for the rich and famous who own summer homes there.

I started off with lunch in Bridgehampton on Friday – who was at the table next to me – Billy Joel – a regular out there renovating his amazing house in Sagaponack (a small exclusive town between Bridgehampton and East Hampton). And then there was the Saturday afternoon Jerry Seinfeld spotting in Sag Harbor, he was driving one of his 40 cars, a white vintage Porsche.  Saturday night at Nello’s restaurant was also cool. I met John Legend’s girlfriend, a beautiful young model, in the bathroom at Nello’s  in South Hampton.  She dragged me over to “John” so he could be all my contact info in his Blackberry – she wants to become a Wilhelmina Model. 

And then of course there’s ME!!  I’ve gotten so much fan mail about my appearance Tuesday night on Housewives of  New Jersey.  Love to hear from all of you or your moms about the show (it’s something else isn’t it.)
Oh and what’s all this about HUGGING.  The Today Show did a segment on HUGGING and the fact that it’s been OUTLAWED in some schools.  Have you ever heard of such a silly thing!?!?!

XOXO

Marlene

Congratulation to the Winner Of Charity Buzz Mother Day Contest!

Wednesday, May 20th, 2009

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We are so happy to announce that Brett G was the winner of the Charity Buzz Mothers Day Mom & Daughter Afternoon of Fun in NYC with Marlene!  I look forward to a day filled of excitement, and I promise to share all of it with our jam community.
 
As you know Jam is my way of helping girls make their paths to adulthood a little less stressful and a lot more fun. When Charity Buzz asked me to pick an organization for the proceeds of the auction I immediately thought of Girl Scouts uniquely ME!  Created in 2002 to address the critical nationwide problem of low self-esteem among adolescent and pre-adolescent girls, uniquely ME! THE GIRL SCOUT/DOVE SELF-ESTEEM PROGRAM is designed to foster self-esteem in girls, ages 8-17. The program helps girls feel better about themselves by helping them develop the skills necessary to face life’s challenges. justaskmarlene is excited to be contributing a check for $1240 to support their transformational work.  To find out more about uniquely Me go to-  http://www.girlscouts.org/program/program_opportunities/leadership/uniquelyme.asp.
We look forward to continuing to support their amazing work!

XOXO

Marlene

American Idol Finale

Tuesday, May 19th, 2009

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It’s the Season Finale Event to see who will win American Idol Season 8. There has been so much diverse talent this season as well as many surprises. It’s down to Kris Allen & Adam Lambert & there is no telling who will win.

Adam Lambert has been the apparent favorite, but I’m not counting Kris Allen out.  Adam stands out with his amazing range, effortless peak performances & flawless voice but Kris has maintained steady momentum & growth.

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***Jam wants to know who your favorite Idol is & your prediction for the 2009 American Idol…***

Five Jam Tips to Waking Up Feeling Beautiful and Rested.

Monday, May 18th, 2009

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In MY BEAUTY, part of the TWEEN LIFESTYLE COLLECTION, published by Simon & Schuster due out Summer ’09, I give lots of tips and tricks for feeling Beautiful from the inside and out.

Along those lines, here are Five Tips for How to Wake Up Feeling Beautiful and Rested.

1. Get an Early Start (the Night Before)  Start a new habit washing your face and brushing your teeth early in the evening.  That way you won’t risk being too tired to go through your ritual and blow if off because you’re too tired.

2. Try Sleeping On Your Back – The average head weighs 7 to 8 pounds and lying on your stomach puts a lot of pressure on your face night after night.  Try sleeping on your back.

3. Find Your Inner Ballerina – For those of you with long hair that would love an easy way to get volume and beautiful waves, use a scrunchie and twist your hair on top of your head for your sleep-do.

4. Feel Like A Star – To help with the frizzies, put your hair in a silk scarf or better yet, try a silk pillow case (You have a good chance of finding one in the local thrift shop).

5. An Ancient Beauty Remedy – The night before you plan to wash your hair, take a teaspoon of olive oil and spread it evenly throughout your hair, put on a shower cap and go to sleep. Wash your hair thoroughly in the morning and it will feel really silky from your treatment.

xoxo
Marlene

Happy Mothers Day

Friday, May 8th, 2009

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Warm Wishes and Happy Thoughts to Make your Mother’s Day a Bright and Special One!

XOXO

Marlene & The jam Team

Parents Have A Say

Thursday, May 7th, 2009

PARENTS HAVE A SAY

I’m finding that Parents are not only writing to JUST ASK MARLENE – they are writing to simply TELL Marlene.  When I got the e-story from Yolanda last week about her three civic minded daughters, I was thrilled to have a place to share that story with you – hence the PARENTS section.  This is not FOR PARENTS ONLY it’s really FROM Parents.

In my soon to be released TWEEN LIFESTYLE COLLECTION (TLC) – “My Self” book, I talk about “getting an allowance”.  With everything on the news these days about the world economy, everyone is talking about money money money!!  The important thing to know is you’re never too young to begin to GET SMART ABOUT MONEY, starting with you r allowance!

One of my Moms at Wilhelmina Kids & Teens, Stacey Tisdale**, also a financial expert for the TODAY SHOW and she has taken the time to give parents and kids the things to think about to help GET SMART and STAY SMART about money.

Get $mart about Money!

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It seems that almost everyday we here stories about celebrities going broke because they didn’t know how to manage the money they’ve made throughout their careers.

There are many reasons for this.  They ran into money managers that took advantage of them.  They didn’t pay attention to their spending.  They didn’t know much about investing and made bad choices.

When we try and figure out ‘what went wrong’ we often overlook one of the most obvious reasons people run into trouble when it comes to managing their finances: No one ever talked to them and showed them how to do it.

The most important teachers you have are your parents or primary caregivers.   Everything from the way we brush our teeth to the way we treat others is molded from how we see the adults in our lives do these things.

Money is no exception.  The ways in which you see your parent’s or primary caregivers handle their finances will have a huge impact on how you handle yours when you are an adult. Today, young people are in a great position to get smart about money.  Unlike older generations, they are hearing people talk about money.  Advertisers are pointing out how smart it is to save.  They see how important it is to be confident and knowledgeable about their finances.  Let the adults in your life help you on your journey.

With that in mind, we’ve developed questions so parents can make sure that their children are as $mart as they can be when it comes to managing money.

**Financial Journalist Stacey Tisdale is the author of The True Cost of Happiness:  The Real Story Behind Managing Your Money.  (Publisher:  John Wiley & Sons).  Ms. Tisdale is a financial expert on NBC’s the Today Show and has been an expert on the Oprah Winfrey Show. For more information and a Q & A for your kids, go to our parents buzz page.

Marlene Wallach Strikes A Pose at Fox News

Monday, May 4th, 2009

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I just got this clip from Fox news where I was featured answering some questions on getting kids ready for open calls &  modeling auditions….Check it out!

Hope you Enjoy!

xoxo,

Marlene

Aspiring models have a big feat ahead of them. From open calls to judgment calls, the world of modeling is a tricky one; furthermore, breaking into the industry can be even trickier.

Here to answer some of the most basic questions on modeling is industry expert Marlene Wallach. Wallach offers her Just Ask Marlene series on her Web site, www.justaskmarlene.com, and has penned multiple books. In addition, Marlene is president and owner of Wilhelmina Kids & Teens, a leading New York City modeling agency.

t&T: What’s your number 1 rule for tweens and teens attending an open call or casting?
MW: It is very important to have realistic expectations for yourself when you go to a casting call or an open call. I talk more about expectations on www.justaskmarlene.com.

t&T: I know you used to be involved in the Miss Teen USA pageant. How do print and high fashion modeling differ from that?
MW: Print and high fashion modeling are completely different than pageants. They each require a very different set of skills.

t&T: What types of photos should tweens or teens bring to agency open calls? Candid pictures, straight on photos, Polaroids?
MW: Snapshots are typically acceptable at an open call. Posed but casual photos are always acceptable. I have a whole section on my site for tips on taking photos.

t&T: What are things to avoid wearing come the day of the casting call?
MW: The first thing an agent doesn’t want to see is too much makeup. Remember, you’re not a stylist, you’re an aspiring model. You should dress in a current, yet not over-the-top style. For ideas take a look at ads from Abercrombie and Target.

t&T: How can someone make herself or himself stand out among hundreds of others competing for the same contract or job?
MW: Believe it or not, a good joke sometimes works. Give it a try!

t&T: How about hair and makeup? Should aspiring models wear any makeup? Keep their hair down or up?
MW: Makeup should always be light for an open call. I suggest wearing your hair down, having a clip handy and asking the agent if they want to see it up. Take a look at the beauty video at JustAskMarlene.com for some tips.

t&T: How can someone tell a reputable agency apart from a fake one? What are certain red flags to look for?
MW: There are [some] expenses involved with getting your career off the ground, but a red flag with fake agencies is that they often ask for your commitment to spend a large sum of money right then and there. If something doesn’t seem right, it probably isn’t. The best thing to do is check them out with the local Better Business Bureau.

t&T: Being a minor, if a teen is scouted out in public, what are the proper steps to take to protect themselves from being taken advantage of?
MW: If scouted on the street, teens should take down all information and tell the scout they have to discuss it with their parents. It is always the role of the parent to protect their child and investigate the scout’s organization.

t&T: What is a good first tip for someone heading into their first photo shoot?
MW: Get a good night’s sleep before your shoot! The camera doesn’t lie, and staying up the night before will surely show up on the photos.

t&T: Is there anything that you would like to add to inform our readers on the world of modeling?
MW: The world of modeling is a fun and exciting place to be. It also involves a lot of hard work with ups and downs; not everyone is cut out for it. Take a look at the modeling section of my site for things you should know about when getting into modeling.
Having said that, if your dream is to become a model— go for it!