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Last night was this week’s results show of American Idol where 4 contestants were eliminated leaving Top 12 singers to battle it out next week in AI’s first theme week. Katelynn Epperly, Lilly Scott, Todrick Hall and Alex Lambert were all voted out of the competition last night shocking many fans. Though the four fantastic singers surely were sad to go, they were able to handle getting the boot with great grace and recognized the great opportunity they were given.
We all know, hearing the word “no” can be really hard. But we can take a lesson from the American Idol contestants on taking rejection the right way. The first thing to remember is that if you are going to take risks, you have to be ready for a little rejection.
The key to dealing with rejection is not to take it personally. What? You’re thinking, “But it is personal.” If you don’t get picked for a part in the school play or a guy you like asks someone else to the school dance, it’s not about you. A lot goes into any decision, and many things are out of your control. Maybe that boy doesn’t know you like him. Maybe that drama teacher gave the part to someone who has helped out with the props. Maybe neither the play nor the boy is right for you. What is in your control is your attitude. You can find another boy, audition for another play. Winners try and try again.
We always hear the American Idol contestants proclaim, “it’s not the end for me,” as they are eliminated from the show. And they’re right! If you are dedicated and keep a positive attitude, you never know what new opportunities will come your way.
Keep your head up, JAM girl!
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